Israel. Questions. Answers?

Some of my Facebook friends are very upset that a Palestinian boy is dead, and that another Palestinian boy was mistreated by police. I have a question for these same Facebook friends. 

If this upsets you

Shouldn't this upset you, too? 

Aren't all four boys innocent victims? If you care only about the loss of Mohammed Abu Khdeir, and not about the loss of Eyal Yifrach, Gilad Shaar, and Naftali Frenkel, why is that? 

Is it because Eyal, Gilad, and Naftali were 

and Mohammed was 

???

But weren't all four boys

???

And isn't that the real tragedy? The loss of innocent youth, of any nation? 

Shouldn't we be looking for the route to 

so that no more innocents have to die? 

And isn't it true that 

wants

but

wants 

and

???

If we really 

shouldn't we, just like

choose 

for 

???